Married And Happy

Consider this for a moment...what if you stopped fretting about everything you want your wife to be for you...all that you believe she is not...and instead, you started focusing on becoming a man who is inspiring to your woman...how much good could such a shift make in your marriage?How much...

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After having helped a lot of men from all over the world create a happier, more sexual marriage, I've come to understand an incredible truth: men unknowingly block the very affection, respect, and sex they desire.Interestingly, the more a husband refuses and rejects this truth...the more a man wants to...

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I don't mean to do it...really, I don't...but it seems to happen anyway...usually, right after I name nonsense for what it really is. For instance, a man recently said the following to me:"I adore my wife. She is 100% perfect even if she is not because I...

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Recently, a man said the following to me:"I am so frustrated!!! No matter what I do, my wife does not give me love, respect, or sex.I constantly do nice things for my wife. For example:I let her sleep in everydayI clean house nonstopI take care of the children (the roles...

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Recently, a guy sent me the following:"I have a question about my wife. What if the little things you do -- that are just you -- get on your wife's nerves -- even though you are supportive and caring and everything -- and you still manage to get on her...

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Husband, what about your sex-life (or, as some guys say, "lack of sex life")?Does your wife seemingly have little to no desire for sex? Consider this man's note:"Help! For several years now, my wife has had virtually no desire for sex. At the beginning, things were great in the sex...

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Recently, a man asked me the following question:"Calle, can you tell me what's going on? My wife and I have been married for 15 years and after the first year, the sex started becoming less and less frequent. My wife simply wasn't in the mood for it...she didn't feel like...

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Fellow husband, are you falling short in satisfying and fulfilling your wife? I'm wondering this because I see the same "pattern" emerge again and again when a wife cheats on her husband.As someone who does extensive research into marriage relationships, I frequently get to interact with men whose wife has...

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There's a serious mistake that some men make in the way they think about their wife and their marriage and this error causes them to lose out on a LOT of intimacy that they'd otherwise get to enjoy. Even worse, it eventually drives their woman to either leave the marriage...

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What is love?Well, unhappily married people would say it's that "magic" feeling that "just happens" between two people...it's not something you can consciously create...it's that "spark" that's either there or it isn't.And, with a definition like that, you know WHY these people are unhappily married.Love is the thing that people...

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When a married couple finds themselves needing help in their marriage, the generally accepted "solution" is to seek out a marriage counselor / therapist. Well, at $75 - $200 per hour and a weekly session for both the husband and the wife and appointments scheduled well into the future, this...

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Men by the millions are right now thinking to themselves, "I wish I had a hot sexy wife" ... but they aren't willing to "pay the price" to have one. They aren't willing to pay the price of learning what they need to learn. They aren't willing to pay...

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Frequently, husbands come to me AFTER their wife doesn't want to talk to them, rejects any form of touch or intimacy, and indicates that she feels a need to go "sort out her thoughts and find herself" in some place where her husband is NOT.Typically, these husbands come to me...

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There are men who sometimes think about their wife being with previous lovers and it generates strong, unpleasant, unhappy feelings within them. For some men, it's so strong that it "hurts" or even makes them "sick".The word we use for these feelings is "jealous".However, here's what a man needs to...

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I continue to be amazed at how insane our "women's-lib-conditioned" world grows. Even more insane is that certain MEN have so bought into that agenda that they have become better "women's-libbers" than the women ever were.Take this true story for instance (the names have been changed for privacy)...Bob and Sue...

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Hey guys, are you interested in a little secret that can really help your marriage be a happier, more sexual union?I thought you might be...but first, I need to "prepare" you to receive this secret...Men like things to be DIRECT. Men like it when there is a one-to-one correlation...

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Have you ever wished that you could be the kind of lover who really inspires and satisfies your woman?Great news...husbands are able to become a better lover and when you become aware of how a woman naturally makes love then you too will become a better lover who inspires and...

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Too many men find themselves in an unsatisfying relationship with their woman. Too many men WISH they had a woman that they could get along with. Too many men are trudging along in a sex-poor or even completely sexless marriage.If you are such a man, let me tell you; you...

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1. The more emotional pain a woman carries, the less she wants to be touched in her private areas. And, unless a woman has a man who completes her, she IS carrying emotional pain – it's just a matter of what degree. Most women do NOT have such...

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Men, have you thought about the following truisms and how they impact you lately?The more sex you have with your wife, the less likely she is to cheat on you.The more sex you have with your wife, the less likely she is to be pursued by other men.You ambition and...

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If you are a man in a relationship that's not as sexual as you would like, then I have good news for you: YOU CAN HAVE A MORE SEXUAL MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP.Yes, you really can. As impossible as it may seem to you right now, I can assure you that...

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A normal woman LOVES intimacy. It's what she daydreams about. It's what her fantasies are filled with. It's what she wants all the time.If that's true, why then do so many women avoid, withdraw from, and resist intimacy?Actually, normal women – women who are emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually healthy...

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1. Touch your skin to her skin in unusual and different ways. For example, while facing your wife, connect the area between your wrist and your elbow to that same area on her and just hold the connection for several seconds and look at her arm(s). You can do it...

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Way too many men are obsessed with their wife and obsessing over her.In some cases, their ego and their self-worth is totally wrapped up in HER looking good and other men noticing her – which then makes them feel important and special.The weird thing is, as much as they want...

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Sometimes, men just need to set aside all the stuff they are busy with and do a few things that really matter.When was the last time you slowed way down and just touched your wife in a way that conveyed to her that you "liked" her?When was the last time...

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