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Why does it burn when I pee?

Mar 3, 2010 7:38pm

Q: I’m a male and I’ve never had sex. I am 15. When I pee it burns. It only happens once in a while. Is there any possible way this is normal so I can forget about this? Because I am scared to go to the doctor and find...

Can I get HPV from another woman?

Feb 24, 2010 9:11pm

Q: Just wondering if you can pass HPV from a female to another female. My girlfriend went in for her pap when we first got together and she came back clean but she went back a couple of weeks ago and they put her on some medicine for HPV. Since...

Will some BDSM trigger my lover’s combat memories?

Feb 17, 2010 8:42pm

Q: I have recently reconnected with an old lover; we have been writing occasionally for years, but only recently saw each other after 30 years. He’s a combat veteran, has a Purple Heart, and was involved in some serious intrigue overseas. We’ve discussed restraints in the past, just kind of flirting...

Why do my condoms keep breaking?

Feb 10, 2010 6:43pm

Q: I have a question about safe condom use. I often have condoms break and I’m not sure why. I understand how to put them on correctly, how to leave space at the tip, how to pinch the tip as you are first rolling it on, and how...

Continuing Education For Sex Educators

Jan 27, 2010 7:04pm

San Francisco Sex Information’s Continuing Education program is a series of monthly classes on topics of interest to sex educators, helping professionals, and anyone curious about the workings of human sexuality. Admission is $5 for anyone who’s volunteered with SFSI in the past six months, and $15 for the general...

How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex?

Jan 27, 2010 6:58pm

Q: How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex? He tries pretty hard to get me off, although not quite as often as I would like. It is difficult thought, because it takes me so long to orgasm and his lengthy efforts so often leave both...

How to continue sex life after MS diagnosis?

Jan 20, 2010 8:21pm

Q: I am a 57 year old female, straight, and have had MS for the last 3 years. I left a long-term relationship a few years ago because it wasn’t going to be able to weather the MS. He wasn’t the right partner to be with once I had...

Can I take my sex toys with me to other countries?

Jan 6, 2010 8:04pm

Q: I would like to know if it is OK to travel with my sex toys in my checked-in luggage to Saudi Arabia. Will be a problem for me? What is your advice? My sex toys include rubber/silicon dildos and a vibrator. A: The quick answer, according to the web...

Is it ok to have rape fantasies?

Dec 30, 2009 8:05pm

Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently...

Switchboard closed 12/25/2009 and 1/1/2010

Dec 23, 2009 7:46pm

The switchboard will be closed on 12/25/2009 and 1/1/2010. Please email us your questions to be answered within the next day, or call the next day during our open hours. Happy New Year! -SFSI Staff...