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Successful Online Dating
Holiday Shopping for Your Date
It’s very common for “Holiday Hookups” to happen this time of year. There are company holiday parties, friends parties, and of course New Years Eve. However, as soon as you start dating someone, you do face the gift giving dilemma. Do you get them a gift? How much do you spend? What if they...
One of the best things I’ve experienced since I got married (online dating success story right here!) is that for the first relationship in my life, I can be myself. This is huge! So many women remake themselves for every man they meet, conforming to his expectations of what a girlfriend/lover/wife...
First Date – 5 Fantastic Ideas for 1st Dates
By now, you know that I prefer that first dates be kept short, simple and flexible. This allows you to fairly easily and painlessly escape a date that is not going well, while leaving plenty of room to continue on if everything is moving in the right direction. So what should...
First Dates – Short and Simple
I recently went on a blind date with a guy I met on a dating site. He asked if I wanted to have dinner. I countered with coffee and “let’s play it by ear.” Why would I pass up the opportunity for a free meal in this economy? Well, because I...
Successful Pickup Lines – the 3 Cs
First, yeah, I know this site is Successful ONLINE Dating, but occasionally I get out from behind the computer. So, why do the cheesy pick up lines never work? Well, they are cheesy and we’ve all heard them before. However, we all know someone that’s met someone in a bar. So, what’s...
San Francisco Sex Information
Continuing Education For Sex Educators
San Francisco Sex Information’s Continuing Education program is a series of monthly classes on topics of interest to sex educators, helping professionals, and anyone curious about the workings of human sexuality. Admission is $5 for anyone who’s volunteered with SFSI in the past six months, and $15 for the general...
How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex?
Q: How can I help my boyfriend give me better oral sex? He tries pretty hard to get me off, although not quite as often as I would like. It is difficult thought, because it takes me so long to orgasm and his lengthy efforts so often leave both...
How to continue sex life after MS diagnosis?
Q: I am a 57 year old female, straight, and have had MS for the last 3 years. I left a long-term relationship a few years ago because it wasn’t going to be able to weather the MS. He wasn’t the right partner to be with once I had...
Can I take my sex toys with me to other countries?
Q: I would like to know if it is OK to travel with my sex toys in my checked-in luggage to Saudi Arabia. Will be a problem for me? What is your advice? My sex toys include rubber/silicon dildos and a vibrator. A: The quick answer, according to the web...
Is it ok to have rape fantasies?
Q: I am a woman with a question I don’t exactly know how to phrase. It has to do with what excites me, sexually. It doesn’t have to do with typical bondage/S&M type fetishes, which I have explored actively throughout my life and have come to accept as not inherently...
Switchboard closed 12/25/2009 and 1/1/2010
The switchboard will be closed on 12/25/2009 and 1/1/2010. Please email us your questions to be answered within the next day, or call the next day during our open hours. Happy New Year! -SFSI Staff...
Baggage Reclaim
Forget ‘Mr. Good Enough’, Mr Perfect & The Fairy Tale: Get Real So You Can Get Happy
Over the past week or so, I can’t seem to escape the title of this new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough written by Lori Gottlieb, a New York based author who is basically saying that women who continue the pursuit of ‘Mr Right’ are...
The (Polar) Opposites Game in Dating & Relationships Part Two
A few days ago, I gave you all an insight into how I bounced from relationship to relationship unwittingly playing ‘the opposites game’ – where you subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) home in on a trait(s) of your last partner that you believe to be part of the reason why the...
The (Polar) Opposites Game in Dating & Relationships (Part One)
Many moons ago, I went out with a guy who was about 9 years older than me. He chased me hard, I wasn’t interested, but after being burnt by another Mr Unavailable who had the looks, charm, flash car, and excitement (I was only 21…), suddenly, even though he didn’t...
Are You Compromised In Your Relationships?
I look back at some of my past relationships and I compromised and was so compromised that I didn’t recognise myself. My boundaries would get battered, I’d forget about things that I valued, and I would morph to reduce the conflicts that were arising in my relationship, both between myself...
Knowing When To Fold: Bad Investments in Relationships & Seeing The Bigger Picture
As feedback starts coming through about my new ebook The No Contact Rule, one of the things that seems to have resonated most with readers is realising that when a relationship ends, it’s not about you being someone to reject, or that you’re a failure and that you should beat...
I’m Successful! Why Am I Still Single?
Being successful is something that most of us strive for in some, way, shape or form. Success means different things to different people and sometimes, it’s driven by an indefinable reason that you just can’t put your finger on. You just know that you value something, it’s important, and you...
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I am having a problem orgasming, like most women. I am 24 years old. I have tried masturbating myself thinking it will be more relaxing and easier, but its not. The problem I am having is I get so close, but I can't get all the way. I start to...
Can I get a girl pregnant if...
Can a girl get pregnant if I ejaculated in the condom then took it off and then stuck my penis back in her but didn't ejaculate in her unprotected. What are the chances? Read the answer......
What's the Typical Use Effectiveness Rate of Abstinence?
What's the typical use effectiveness rate for abstinence? All I can find anywhere, even at organizations that teach abstinence, or say it's the only effective method of contraception, is the perfect use rate. How well does it really work for people in real life? Why doesn't anyone have that information...
You should wait for sex, but if you can't....
This is one of a long line of common phrases in sex education and sexuality messaging people, including people I think of us allies, use that I deeply dislike, like "preventing teen pregnancy." Let me explain why, working backwards. "You should wait for sex, but if you can't..." That's usually followed by...
The Virginity Project
I’ve told this story before but I’ll tell it again. I searched high and low for the prostitute virginity loss story. I phoned a friend – or ten – I practically advertised on the Internet at one point until I......
Well now, seeing as we are passing tonight, not just from one year to the next but from one decade to another, here is an extra special treat. I don’t know what’s been happening lately, perhaps it is something in......
So, I promised to tell you the second part of last week’s story and here it is. Let’s recap. Our storyteller is twenty-three years old and she has not yet lost her virginity. She kept it because she made a......
When I first read this story, I assumed that The Vow in question had been made in response to parental pressure. I was wrong: ‘Both of my parents knew about my vow and both of them, whom have not agreed......
You can go whole weeks here at the virginity project and nothing really happens. No one loses their virginity and if they do, they don’t feel inclined to talk about it and generally speaking, everyone appears to be at one......
And when did you last see your virginity....
Kind of dumb….but he does have a point....
Love + Sex
Single On V-Day? Embrace Your Inner Cat Lady
Single on Valentine's Day? Awesome. Who cares about the multitudes of gooey couples going out to crowded restaurants with overpriced prix fixe menus. Bad chocolate, balloons and (ick) teddy bears? No thank you, we know how to really have fun. 5 Worst Valentine's Day Gifts...
Have You Ever Heard of Sexual Anorexia?
I will admit, in my years of reporting about health, I have never come across the term "sexual anorexia"--until last week, when I was doing some research for a story about sex addiction (which has been in the news a lot lately--hello Tiger!). The details on this surprising and often misunderstood condition ......
Dating FAIL: These Guys Made Us Scream and Shout
Happy Friday everyone! Need some twisted comedy to get you through the rest of the work day? Here are two Dating FAIL stories sure to make you giggle....
Outed: Guys Reveal Their Dating Secrets
So far, this has been a glorious week of outing: First, Andrew Young outed his former boss John Edwards as having as sex tape. Then a former CIA operative and public defender of waterboarding outed that tactic as ineffectual, just as the military was asked to reconsider its position on soldiers out in uniform....
7 Ways to Make Room For Romance In Your Life
Love has so many powerful stories attached to its concept that it is truly difficult to filter fact from fantasy. Also, people tend to fire us up by exaggerating their own love stories which become more dramatic with the telling. A wise old saying clarifies the whole love…...
Would You Rather Have a Fancy Engagement Ring or a Cheap Engagement Ring?
The other day, as I was walking into a restaurant, I passed a beautiful woman wrapped up in her winter coat. And my eyes almost popped out when I saw......
Adult Sex Toys and Vibrators
Eroticism in the couple’s sexuality – 1
Eroticism is a fundamental component of the couple’s sexuality, one can hardly keep burning desire and passion if lost or there is no eroticism in privacy. It is often said that we have lost our desire, do not feel excited or not enough to reach orgasm and erectile problems become...
Sexual Intercourse differences and similarities between men and women
We always talk about the differences between men and women especially when it comes to the sexual sphere or in terms of relationships, and how each one lives and feels, this important aspect of your life. For women, they are said to be more sensitive While it is good to talk...
Kamasutra the three types of men
After getting such a good response from my friends here on Kamasutra, I am bringing in one more post on this topic but this time its for men. Classification of Kamasutra The Kamasutra, in addition to sexual positions and varied range of topics provides a classification of men taking into account...
It is a myth or a reality Men are attracted to the blonde women is not a myth. The explanation appears to date from earlier times when some deficiencies in food by women lose hair color and skin that made them different from other arousing the attraction of men. Other theories...
If you want to seduce, go and play
Step closer We are continuing the theme of seduction and how to seduce talk about the importance of physical contact when trying to conquer a woman or a man because it works the same way for both sexes. The title says if you want to seduce come closer and touch, but...
To seduce is to conquer The seduction is a way to gain acceptance of others, please, attract and fall in love, as the evidence sought to achieve through seduction. When it comes to seduction or associates the word seduce a woman trying to conquer a man, but there are many forms...
Very Smart Brothas
black “firsts” we won’t be seeing anytime soon
rapper. record-setter. roach from the first black president and the first black head football coach at mississippi state university (sylvester croom. this was a really, really big deal when it happened, btw) to the first black woman to win an oscar for best actress and the first black roach to simultaneously...
the emo mandingo: how to be the sh*t
hello. my name is the champ, and i’m the coolest muthaf*cker any of you will ever meet. i’m cool ass hell. i’m cooler than ice, ice water, ice cream, and debra lee i’m to cool what crackheads are to home depot parking lots. if “being cool” was “being black”, i’d be the back...
things that make you much more randy than they probably should
do you like chicken? of all the crushes i’ve harbored, none have impacted my life the way angie williams has. angie –a high school classmate– was the object of my silent appreciation for approximately three months in the spring of 1997. it wasn’t that she was the finest or sexiest girl in...
why your “number” matters so much to us
its a story we’ve all heard before: boy approaches girl at lupe fiasco lookalike contest afterparty. girl is charmed by boys proper use of “peripheral” when describing her booty, and gives phone number to boy. boy calls girl three and a half days later, and continues to charm girl with the...
six things every grown-ass sista should possess
last week, panama blessed the vsb pulpit with 6 things that every grown a** black man needs in his life. since we’re ardent supporters of equal opportunity and sh*t, here’s six things every grown-ass sista should possess. 1. a hobby “what’s the most important thing for a grown-ass sista to possess?” you know,...
I Think You Just Went Too Far.
My current favorite commercials are by Bud Light where they attempt to display just how perfect Bud Light through the extremes of various daily activities. The one with the driving dog is hands down my favorite but only because I swear I saw Tupac driving down Central Avenue in Maryland...
Beyond the Birds & the Bees
Teen Mom: Who Are You Calling a Whore?
I was talking with some of my friends about MTV’s Teen Mom a few weeks ago, and one of them said, “They’re all whores.” My friend wasn’t calling the guys who the girls had sex with whores, just the girls—not that anyone deserves to be called a whore. I was really surprised...
Calling All Artists: Promote Safer Sex!
Condoms, when used correctly, help prevent unplanned pregnancies, HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Condoms can be an important part of practicing safer sex, and here at Sex, Etc. we encourage you to make condoms fun. Sex, Etc. is not the only place promoting condom use; in fact, a whole city is promoting...
Do you know anyone who has come to school naked? Probably not, but maybe you do know people at your school who have been seen naked because they’ve sexted—shared nude photos or videos of themselves via text or online. Many teens believe that the only person viewing the message is...
Two Things You Can Do—Not Just on World AIDS Day
World AIDS Day is held once a year, every year, on December 1. While HIV/AIDS is a daily reality that needs to be discussed and addressed, this is one particular day when people take extra time to get educated, get tested and remember the over 33 million people worldwide, living...
The Real “Fright” about High Teen STD Rates
I spoke to Montel Williams on his Air America show Montel Across America, last Thursday. We talked about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC’s) Sexually Transmitted Disease Surveillance, 2008, which was released last week. The CDC’s report found that STDs, such as chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea, are on...
Girls can wear dresses or pants. Right? Apparently not at prom. Sex, Etc. magazine recently reported that a 17-year-old girl in Indiana wanted to express her gender by wearing a tuxedo to prom. She was denied this right, because her school’s dress code required girls to wear dresses to prom....
Jennifer Jones's Blogs
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"Awareness of the mandala may have the potential of changing how we see ourselves, our planet, and perhaps even our own life purpose."...
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How to Tell if a Guy is a Jerk
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This Could Be Dangerous...
You know how sometimes you don’t realize something as being true until it comes falling out of your mouth with no premeditated thought? Writing is like that, for me. It can be how I work shit out. So I handed in a few posts to Edencafe recently and they decided...
NYC Sex Blogger Calendar is recruiting nationwide!
Reposted from the New York City Sex Bloggers Calendar website, which you should go check out because yours truly designed the header and the new sidebar buttons and I’m totally proud of them. :) Amazing artwork, Map of Canada and the US, by Oupelay on DeviantArt, please check out the rest of...
HNT: Driving with the top down
The last time I tried this, I was alone and driving on the Turnpike where the other drivers are whizzing by at high speeds. This time I was with my hub and on a smaller 4-lane road where the drivers aren’t going by me quite as quickly. I fear one...
HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It Too Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included...
Webcams are such a glorious invention. Better still is finding a free members-only chatroom that is webcam-capable and located on a NSFW forum. Nakedness is encouraged, orgasms are even better when shared, and it all is an exhibitionist/voyeur’s dream. Sometimes I watch, sometimes I show off. Sometimes I show off...
Vibrators - The Most Popular Adult Sex Toys
Strap-Ons - Women Taking Control
If you want to add variety and spice to your love life then there can’t be anything better than a strap-on. There are a number strap-on toys that you can choose, right from strap-on dildos to strap-on vibrators. If you are using a strap-on for the first time it would...
Male Sex Toys - Its Not Just Girls Who are Having all the Fun!
Do you think its just women who are having all the fun? Well they aren’t, because there is a range of sex toys available for men that is very popular and helps men have as much fun as women. There is a diverse range of vibrators available that is taking...
Monkey Spanker: A cool male masturbator
Male masturbators have come a long way from fake vaginas and adult dolls. To an unimaginative mind, these masturbators may not even look like a sex product. The Monkey Spanker is a male masturbator that does not look like a vagina, or even a sex toy but delivers such powerful...
Double Bunny Vibrator - A review
Vibrators are in a continuous state of ascendancy as far as popularity is concerned. New vibrators are coming out regularly that seem to further improve upon the erotic stimulation offered by vibrators that came before. One of the newer entrants in this bustling scenario is the Double Bunny Vibrator. ...
Lelo Vibrators: Sex Toys to Please Women
Vibrators are sex toys that can offer women endless amounts of pleasure. If you are looking for vibrators with inspiring and creative designs, the vast collection of sex available from Lelo vibrators can offer you an amazing choice. Lelo is a Swedish company that manufactures vibrators and other sex toys...
Strap Ons - Sex Roles Reversal
Couples nowadays enjoy exchanging sex roles during intercourse. This is a very pleasurable experience for couples who are willing to go a step ahead and break taboos to give each other never before experienced sexual pleasure. This has become one of the latest play acts for couples. Something very unconventional...
Seasoned Sex ~ Sex and The Older Woman
Would you Hire a “Prostidude?”
Regular readers to my blog may be familiar with posts I’ve done covering male escorts. Okay, I admit, at first I thought it was funny. But now I’m like, hey, this could be the wave of the future. And just maybe it’s about time. Have you noticed the new flurry of...
Will the world ever be ready for the older woman, younger man equation? Carnival Cruise Lines says no, but recently some cougars rocked the boat, making it very clear, they're not about to be thrown overboard. Related posts:Ask A Cougar: Does a cougar need to be rich, not just...
Ever wonder if "cougars" are all the same? Here's a take on cougars and cubs from the playful folks over at Air New Zealand. Funny with good strategy tips, too! Related posts:Ask A Cougar: When to have sex: When should a cougar start having sex with her cub? Are the rules different...
How to Turn a Guy into a Sex Toy
Introducing BO from LELO.com, the best vibrator for men, and couples will love it too. Related posts:Ask A Cougar: How to Meet A Younger Man: Ask A Cougar Woman: How Can An Older Woman Meet A Younger Man?...Buzz in the New Year with Style: Best Vibrator Review: Don't settle for just any...
Buzz in the New Year with Style: Best Vibrator Review
Don't settle for just any sex toy. I review the best vibrators so you can buzz in the New Year with style and make new friends too! Related posts:Vibrator Buzz: The best vibrator started life as a mini-massager. ...Vibrators To Die For: Sexy Seniors love their sex toys. And they make sure no...
Honey and Lance
How To Get A Totally Jacked Chest That Women Will Love
(Another pic of Lance) Okay, who wants to have a totally jacked chest that will have chicks pawing at you? This guy right here does. Ups to Dadshouse who inspired me to write this from his comment in my post on destroying creepiness and improving your life. Being fit has always given...
Need some lolz to get you over the hump? Lance has your back. My sister forwarded me this YouTube Bud Light Commercial. Probably the funniest forward I’ve ever gotten. Watch in the privacy of your cube, it’s sorta NSFW. Guffaws will ensue. © Copyright 2009, Reckless Abandon, LLC. All rights reserved....
Why I Wouldn’t Pay to Send My Kid To College
Lance and I got into a spirited debate in the comments of a recent post about whether or not parents should shoulder the costs for their children to go to college. Now, this issue is moot for me for a couple reasons: I’m not having children, and Jake and I have $100K in...
State Trooper Fired After Getting Hummer From Porn Star
TFIG you bastardz! As usual, H&L only brings you the very best of the web. Tennessee State Trooper pulls over hot porn star, gets mad BJ in the squad car, takes video, ends up on blog, you can guess the rest. Porn Star, aka Barbie Cummings, still gets nailed for $180...
Because it’s literally the first thing that I thought of when I heard the name of apple’s new tablet, I have to share: © Copyright 2009, Reckless Abandon, LLC. All rights reserved....
7 Ways To Destroy Creepiness and Improve Your Life (Part 2)
In my previous post on creepiness I talked about why guys get creepy and also tried to dispel a few misconceptions on creepiness and pickup arts. I stated that studying pickup and practicing social skills has improved every area of my life, and I meant it. Now it’s time to...
The Frisky
Quickies: Brittany Murphy’s Cause Of Death Determined & The Katie Couric Salary Dilemma
Sources say Brittany Murphy‘s cause of death, pneumonia, could have been treated. Ya think? [TMZ] Ever wondered how the “Man Vs. Food” guy, Adam Richman, cleanses his insides after a food challenge? He’s dishing on the subject. [Maxim] The Orange... ...
Snoop Dogg Has Joined The (Adidas) Force
Snoop was on hand to help Adidas promote its original “Star Wars” collection. [NYC, 2/4/10] ...
Would You Be Able To Spot An ATM Skimmer?
An ATM skimmer is basically a device that is put on top of an ATM machine to secretly capture your card number, and it can be used in conjunction with cameras to snag your PIN, too. Skimmers account for more than 80 percent of ATM fraud, which... ...
Jessica Biel Eats A Chocolate-Covered Cricket
OK, so there is one thing we really like about Jay Leno‘s show—the “Earn Your Plug” segments, where he makes a celebrity do some stupid thing before they get to tell people to go see their newest movie. Last night, Jessica Biel earned the right to... ...
Today’s Lady News: Emma Watson Is The Highest Paid Actress In Hollywood, But #14 On The List
Nineteen-year-old Emma Watson, star of the “Harry Potter” series, is the highest paid actress in Hollywood with an estimated $30 million in earnings. And while that’s really cool, we couldn’t help but notice Emma shows up #14 on Vanity Fair‘s list... ...
A Skinny Waist Does Not Always An Athlete Make
If you’re training for a marathon with the intention of losing weight, you may find yourself engaged in a complicated battle. According to The New York Times, having a lower weight can have a serious negative impact on your athletic training.... ...
Dating
Well, what can I say about eHarmony? They are one of the premiere dating sites, and for a good reason. I signed up for a full membership, tried it out, and all I can say is they really get down to the nitty gritty as far as what you would...
I rate this site so highly because not only can you comfortably find singles online with a web browser, but you can find them when your away from your computer with your cell phone! Very nice! New singles are joining all the time, and Love.Dada has around 3 million members. It...
Real Mature Singles is a screened group of single adults who are ready to move beyond online dating and into something real....
If you're 30-ish, or way over it, then you may be looking for a more serious relationship. I think this is one reason why more single women and men seem to find Thirty Plus Singles so successful! This site has lots of no-nonsense dating features, it also has strict rules imposed...
Elite Matchmaking for Professional Singles VIP Singles is a true matchmaking service. They assign a personal representative to you. This person reviews the profile that you submit to them, and from there, start suggesting matches. These are hand picked, and human scrutinized results. It really doesn't get much better than this! The...
Our members are intelligent, attractive professionals in search of meaningful relationships. We have walked away impressed with the Seeking Marriage site. Not only to they cater to a very well defined set of people, looking for serious relationships, but they do so with a great deal of personal attention. Once you fill...